Tactic that might work is a website that outed
office psychopaths.
posted on 1188438816.65
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Tactic that might work is a website that outed
office psychopaths.
posted on 1188438816.65
Agent Provocateur
In Joseph Conrad's classic, _The Secret Agent_ (written in 1907) a foreign spy attempts to provoke the British government with an outrageous act. It is the reaction -- not the triggering act itself -- that would do the most harm. Workplace provocateurs attempt to goad you into a response -- typically emotional -- that causes lasting damage to yourself. Since most workplaces do little (if anything) to identify provocation, this tactic is very effective. Watch out! The provocateur may not be a mere freelancer, but part of a group. Some office groups include members that specialize in agitation. If a particularly obnoxious employee seems to enjoy the protection of powerful people, be especially wary. He may get away with frequent outbursts -- but someone who responds in kind may not be so lucky.
posted on 1182038430.73 by SiteAdmin
Do Not Forget to Praise
A powerful way to create a positive atmosphere at work is to praise a job well done. Write a thank-you note to that person in the other department who helped your project. Mention your team member's special contribution at the next meeting. Praise shows others that you value them -- that you can be trusted to recognize their achievements.
posted on 1177986744.46 by SiteAdmin
An effective manager can (and must) nip office
politics in the bud. I had a General Manager who did this extremely well. If someone went to him in private and made a comment(derogatory) about a colleague .. he would immediately call the mentioned colleague and with both of them in the room .. he would say " Mr J just mentioned to me something about you.." Needless to say.. Mr J got the message .. and so did the rest of the organization soon!
posted on 1173114767.2 by fundakid
Office Politics = Social Pollution?
Office politics not only hurts employees individually -- the cost to organizations is in the hundreds of billions of dollars per year. This is analogous to how environmental damage is no longer just about the spotted owl or the beluga whale. The destruction of the environment threatens the planet as a whole, and with it, human civilization. Maybe there needs to be the same awareness about office politics as about environmental damage. Once the institutional paralysis induced by staff conflicts, maneuvering and intrigues gets to a certain point, organizations will be unable to function, and society is doomed.
posted on 1171049094.62 by SiteAdmin
The Opt Out Option
J.D. "Illiad" Frazer, cartoonist of User Friendly
fame
http://www.userfriendly.org/
has written a book (_Money for Content and Your
Clicks for Free_). It is full of valuable
information for independent content developers.
Why, however, should you become an independent
creator in the first place?
On the job, claims Frazer, some coworker will be
watching your every move, waiting for a chance to
slip in a "metaphorical dagger" should you make a
mistake.
Could the the best strategy for office politics be
to leave the office altogether?
posted on 1169832018.77 by SiteAdmin
Does Everyone Really Think This is Normal?
Here is a story from the New York Times (registration may be required) claiming that difficult people are not going away, you just have to learn to live with them, etc. http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/18/fashion/18difficult.html They also emphasize that you (anyone reading the article?) may be at fault if you have trouble with difficult people. Does everyone consider this normal? If you look at the workplace 30-40 years ago, "difficult people" did not seem to be such a problem. Even the New York Times article states that all the books on this subject, as well as the demand for relationship consultants, is a relatively new development. Is the phenomenon of "difficult people" a personal self-help issue, or are forgotten workplace management techniques from the recent past the key?
posted on 1169154959.65 by SiteAdmin
Keep Your Job Despite a Group Attack?
Here is a true story. In a previous job, I reported to a very senior manager (Chief ... Officer) who was generally supportive of what I was doing, at times enthusiastically so. Unfortunately, the Chief had a confidant, who exercised a great deal of influence over him. The confidant built up a strong coalition around himself. This "team" had many targets (including myself) and their attacks were relentless (it went on for years) and steadily escalating. Turnover was already high, and it was clear that all of us would eventually be picked off one by one. Hence, I tried to unite some of the other victims (all senior-level employees) in order to defend ourselves. These employees showed a lot of initiative in their work, were not afraid to make proposals to senior management, etc. Together, however, the targeted employees were very timid. It was impossible to act in unison with them -- they were afraid to be seen together even briefly. This was quite surprising, since the danger was clear but not immediate (i.e. each of them would last at least a few months before the confidant finally got rid of them). The confidant's "team", however was very bold, meeting openly to strategize, going out on long lunches and dinners together, etc. This is despite the fact that, individually the coalition members (including the confidant himself) were quite cowardly, and very afraid of the Chief. So, I eventually left, and the other targeted employees were all picked off one by one, as expected. Was this the right thing to do, should I have tried to stick it out till the very end? Is there any way to fend off such a team attack?
posted on 1168551446.03
Check Six!
The Nobel-prize-winning physicist, Richard Feynman ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Feynman ), was on the commission that investigated the Space Shuttle Challenger disaster. Of course, there were a lot of politics! During the investigation the Air Force General Kutyna remarked that every member of the commission (including himself) had a weakness. Feynman initially thought that he personally was not seriously threatened, but the General had the following tip for the great physicist. "Thinking that you're safe is very dangerous! Somewhere, there's a weakness you've got to find. You must always check six o'clock." In an airplane, the six o'clock position is directly behind the pilot (twelve o'clock is straight ahead). Most air combat victories result from a "sneak attack" from the rear -- with the losing pilot completely unaware until the last moment. Does this sound like your office?
posted on 1167801240.54 by SiteAdmin
The Ruling Clique
The office -- just like in high school -- is usually dominated by a ruling clique. The members of this group support each other; their solidarity can be quite remarkable. At first glance, the employees in the top clique may look like the regular rank-and-file. There will always be few senior staffers, but they are not necessarily -- even unlikely -- to be big bosses. Nevertheless, if you run afoul of the ruling clique, and you are in big trouble. These individuals are quite likely to be "above the law" , with the boss always on their side. Watch out!
posted on 1166935408.43
Join a Fief -- Keep Your Job
There are often different factions at the office. If you just focus on your work, and ignore this, you can be in big trouble. If no single faction finds you at all useful, you will just be branded as "not a team player". Want to guess what happens next? Unless you are sophisticated enough to maneuver between these fiefs, you will just have to join one of them -- preferably the strongest that would take you.
posted on 1166202687.2
Does That Co-Worker just have an Axe to Grind ...
... or is he a REAL axe murderer! Highly respected criminal psychology expert, Dr. Robert Hare http://www.hare.org/ describes that psychopathic individuals are actually quite common in the workplace. The office psychopath will probably not actually kill someone, but nevertheless shares many characteristics with the criminal variety. These include the following. * Glibness and superficial charm. * Deceptive, manipulative behavior. * Constant need for excitement. * Self-centered and lacking empathy. * No moral sense -- other people are just tools for pleasure or material gain. See also http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy Have you ever come across such a person? How did you handle the situation?
posted on 1165600115.22 by SiteAdmin
Exit Strategy?
Entrepreneurs sometimes talk about an "exit strategy" for their startups. For example, going public is an exit strategy; selling the startup to a more established firm is another. Do employees need exit strategies, too? This would mean planning how you would leave your job even *before* you take the offer! Subsequently, you would periodically evaluate the situation throughout your tenure, always thinking of the exit strategy -- even when things are going great. Is this kind of planning a necessity in today's work world? Is it maybe too cynical?
posted on 1165353036.82 by SiteAdmin
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